"As they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate."
—Mark 10:8-9





Congratulations on your engagement and upcoming wedding!
Thank you for thinking of Avondale United Methodist Church as part of your plans.
Your wedding is the Christian celebration of your love and commitment to each other and to God. At Avondale United Methodist Church we want to minister to you through your wedding service. This sacred ceremony, in which you enter into a covenant with God and one other, is one of the ways you create a solid foundation for your marriage. By choosing to use a representative of God and Christ’s Church you are inviting God’s presence in your wedding and purposely asking for God’s blessing upon the marriage.
Most weddings at Avondale UMC are held in our sanctuary. This stately, yet warm and inviting facility seats approximately 300 guests on the lower level and 150 in the balcony. Decorated with red upholstery and rich walnut furnishings, the sanctuary provides the perfect backdrop for your wedding ceremony.
Wedding receptions can be accommodated in the church social hall, which is within steps of the sanctuary.
Want to hear what others are saying about weddings at Avondale UMC? Visit our profile on TheKnot.com.
Larry Contri
Wedding LiaisonKacy Sesser-Dorné
Wedding LiaisonRev. Malinda Jowers Weaver
Pastor
Team Members

Larry Contri
Wedding LiaisonTeam Members

Kacy Sesser-Dorné
Wedding Liaisonweddings@avonumc.net
Team Members

Rev. Malinda Jowers Weaver
Pastormalinda@avonumc.net
Malinda was born and raised in Pelham, Alabama, and grew up at Helena United Methodist Church. You could say she was attending church before she was born since her mother was the church organist at Helena for 50 years. Malinda attended college at the University of Alabama where she received her Bachelor of Arts in Telecommunication and Film; in layman’s terms that’s broadcasting. Malinda worked for a few years at a local news station here in Birmingham, finishing there as the 6:00am morning show producer before answering God’s call to ministry. She went on to attend Emory University in Atlanta where she received a Master of Divinity and also met her future husband while singing in the theology school’s choral ensemble The Candler Singers.
Malinda is married to Disney Weaver. He teaches Economics, Sociology, and World History at Ramsay High School, and he coaches the school’s tennis team. They have two young daughters, Rose and Margaret, who are both social butterflies. Malinda enjoys gardening with Disney, being amused by her girls, and traveling with all three of them.
Malinda’s biggest passions in ministry are mission work and helping people find their place in the mission of the church. She believes God calls each of us to somehow be in service. From swinging a hammer … to serving meals to hungry people … to writing notes of encouragement to those who need them … we all have a part to play in the kingdom of God. Malinda will challenge you to find your place of service if you haven’t already.
Scheduling and Inquiries
Tours of Avondale UMC are offered by appointment only. Inquiring couples are encouraged to email our wedding liaisons to arrange a time for a tour and/or to schedule your wedding (weddings@avonumc.net). Once your request for a specific date and time are received, your wedding will be tentatively scheduled. You must complete the wedding application form and pay a security deposit in order for your date to be confirmed. You will be notified by email when your date has been confirmed.
Fees and Payments
Avondale UMC is pleased to offer its facilities for couples wishing to marry. In order to provide the best possible environment for couples wishing to marry here, Avondale UMC has set the following fees for weddings at our church.
Fees cover building expenses, a wedding liaison, janitorial services, and a sound system operator. Fees are per-event (e.g., a rehearsal dinner and reception are considered two events). Fees are set by the Avondale UMC church council and are nonnegotiable.
A deposit of $500 is required to confirm the date of the wedding. The deposit will be applied toward the total fee.
OTHER COSTS
These fees are intended as a guideline to customary honorariums.
- Avondale UMC Pastor - $350.00
- AUMC Organist/pianist - $300 (both rehearsal and ceremony)
- AUMC Nursery Attendant (as available) - $100.00 (2 attendants - 3 hour min.)
- All payments must be in the form of cash, money order or cashier's check. Avondale United Methodist Church does not accept personal checks for payment of wedding fees.
PAYMENT SCHEDULE
- Immediately upon reservation: security deposit
- Two weeks before the day of the ceremony: all fees and honorariums must be paid in full to the wedding liaison.
Wedding Planning Resources
Couples being married by an Avondale UMC pastor will have the opportunity to discuss plans for the ceremony with him/her. The pastor will use his or her experience as a worship leader to make sure all aspects of your ceremony are worshipful, meaningful, and contribute to the celebratory atmosphere of your wedding day. Please know that the pastor has the final say in what will be included in the wedding service. The Avondale UMC pastor will work with any guest pastor and has the final say in what will be included in those services also.
The following resources may be helpful for you in planning your wedding:
- Service of Christian Marriage Profile (an information form to record details about the service to share with the pastor)
- The full text of the Christian marriage service in the United Methodist tradition (a basic template for the marriage ceremony)